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Who Needs "Normal" Anyway?
by Kathy Sherwood
Alright, let’s clear up one of the biggest misconceptions out there: gap years aren’t just for teenagers fresh out of high school, aimlessly wandering around Europe trying to "find themselves" (though, to be fair, the discovery of Belgian waffles is life-changing). No, my friend, gap years are for anyone who looks at their life and thinks, “I need a reset button. Like, right now.”
Whether you’re 35, 55, or staring down the barrel of retirement and wondering why you haven’t packed up and taken off yet, a gap year might be exactly what the doctor (or your inner adventurer) ordered. So, if you’re thinking, “Isn’t it a bit late for me to be traipsing around the globe?” let me stop you right there: you’re definitely not too old for a gap year. In fact, you’re probably in the prime of your life for one.
Let’s dive into the hows, whys, and whats of taking a gap year that will make your friends back home either wildly envious or immediately start booking their own trips.
let me stop you right there: you’re definitely not too old for a gap year
Step 1: The "Why Not?" Mindset
First things first: If you’re considering a gap year but hesitating because you think it’s irresponsible or too late in life, let’s reframe that thinking. A gap year isn’t a luxury for the few or a reckless leap into the unknown. It’s a brilliant reset button. It's a chance to step away from the daily grind and look at life through a new lens.
Maybe you're fed up with your commute, tired of spreadsheets, or just wondering how many times you can microwave the same lunch before it becomes a sad metaphor for your life. This is your sign to take a break. And the beauty of doing it when you’re older? You’ve got life experience. You know yourself a heck of a lot better than you did at 18. You’re not just aimlessly backpacking around. You’re taking on the world, one well-considered destination at a time.
Step 2: Funding the Fun (Without Breaking the Bank)
Ah, the classic objection: "But how will I pay for it?" Listen, the “gap year” doesn’t have to mean you drain your savings and live off ramen noodles (unless, of course, you’re in Japan, in which case, highly recommended). A gap year can look however you want it to. You can work remotely, pick up freelance gigs, or even house-sit your way across Europe. Ever tried swapping homes with someone in Italy for a few months? You get their villa, they get your house. Everyone wins.
You know yourself a heck of a lot better than you did at 18
The key is in the planning. Figure out how much time you want to take off, what your budget is, and get creative with how you’ll fund it. Maybe you sell that third car you don’t really use. Maybe you work part-time along the way—teaching English, freelancing, or becoming a surf instructor (because why not?). You’ll find that there’s always a way, especially with the rise of remote work and travel options that didn’t exist a decade ago.
Step 3: The Big Conversation—Getting the Fam and the Boss Onboard
If you’re flying solo, this part’s easy—your only convincing will be yourself. But if you’ve got a partner, kids, or a job you’re somewhat attached to, things get a little more complicated. Don’t worry, though, it’s totally doable.
For the family, pitch it as an epic adventure. Imagine the kinds of stories your kids will bring back to school after a year spent snorkeling in Australia or hiking through the Andes. Moving them to a different country? Sure, that’s a big leap, but kids are resilient, and they might learn more in a year abroad than they ever would in a classroom. Plus, it’s a chance for you to bond as a family over crazy experiences that will make for great stories later.
Now, your boss? That’s a trickier one. But more companies are coming around to the idea of sabbaticals or extended leaves of absence. Worst-case scenario: you quit and find a new job when you get back. (And trust me, once you’ve spent a year zip-lining through Costa Rican jungles or sipping espresso in a Parisian café, the office cubicle won’t seem so appealing.)
Step 4: Embrace the Logistics (They’re Less Scary Than They Sound)
Alright, I hear you: “But what about my house? My mail? My gym membership that I don’t even use?” These things feel huge, but they’re actually pretty easy to manage once you’ve made the decision to go.
Step 5: The Wild Adventures You’ve Always Dreamed About
Here’s where the fun begins: What do you actually want to do on this gap year? This is your chance to cross off those bucket list items you’ve been putting off for years. Whether it’s a cooking class in Tuscany, hiking the Inca Trail, or even something as wild as learning to sail in the Caribbean, now’s the time to make it happen.
Think about your passions. Love history? Spend a few months exploring ancient ruins in Greece or Rome. Want to give back? Volunteer with wildlife conservation in Africa or help build schools in underdeveloped areas. More of a thrill-seeker? How about skydiving over the Swiss Alps or bungee jumping in New Zealand?
The point is: this is your year. Make it as epic as you want. No more “maybe next summer.” This is happening now.
Step 6: Coming Back (Or Not)
Okay, so you’ve lived the dream, had incredible experiences, and now it’s time to come home. Or… is it? A lot of people who take gap years find that they’ve caught the travel bug in a serious way. Suddenly, the thought of returning to a 9-to-5 isn’t as appealing as, say, moving to a new city, picking up a new skill, or becoming a full-time digital nomad.
No more “maybe next summer.” This is happening now
But let’s say you do decide to come back. Give yourself some grace. You might feel out of place at first—regular life can feel a bit dull after you’ve seen the pyramids up close. Ease back into it. Take the lessons you’ve learned and apply them to your everyday life. Maybe you won’t be zip-lining on your lunch break, but you can definitely bring a bit of that adventure mindset with you. Simplify your routine. Stay curious. Keep planning the next adventure, even if it’s just a weekend away.
You’ve Got This!
At the end of the day, a gap year isn’t about escaping your life—it’s about enhancing it. It’s about pressing pause and giving yourself the space to breathe, to explore, to see the world through fresh eyes. Whether you’re looking to reignite your passion, recharge your batteries, or simply step away from the norm, taking a gap year can be the best decision you’ve ever made.
So, why not? You’re definitely not too old. The world is out there waiting. All you have to do is say yes.
Kathy Sherwood
Author
Kathy’s been traveling with her husband Scott since 2021, proving that the world is both a large place and somehow not big enough to hide from her love of adventure.
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